5 Tips for Oral Pleasure

Oral pleasure is an intimate and exciting way to connect with your partner, but it can sometimes feel intimidating if you're unsure where to start. Whether you need beginner oral tips or are looking to refine your technique, our Flirtation Station Sexpert, Linda Koontz, has some oral sex techniques and advice for couples, plus product recommendations to enhance the experience and to help you feel more confident to enhance the experience for both you and your partner.

1. Communication is Key

Before diving in, talk to your partner about what they enjoy. Everyone's preferences are different, so open communication ensures you're both on the same page. Don't be afraid to ask questions or encourage your partner to guide you with verbal or non-verbal cues during the experience. Incorporate a fun dice game into your foreplay.

2. Take Your Time

There's no need to rush! Building anticipation can make the experience even more pleasurable. Start slowly with kisses and gentle touches, gradually working your way to more direct stimulation. Pay attention to your partner's reactions and adjust your pace accordingly. Adding a touch of flavored lubricant to your lips before kissing your partner can help to rev things up, too. 

3. Use Your Hands

Your mouth doesn't have to do all the work. Incorporating your hands can add variety and intensity to the experience. Experiment with different combinations of oral, manual, and vibration stimulation to discover what your partner enjoys most.

4. Don't Forget the Lube

Adding lubricant can enhance comfort and sensation for both partners. Try Simply Timeless Aqua Jelle, Simply Timeless Hybrid or Simply Hybrid Jelle, or explore our edible lubricant Simply Tropical Lubricant Trio to find your perfect match. Water-based and hybrid formulas are safe for oral play and can make the experience smoother and more enjoyable.

Want to add even more excitement? Try flavored lubricants like Intimate Earth Salted Caramel, Sizzle Lips warming gel, a delicious Handipop flavor, or Lust Intense's buzzing sensation for a playful twist that brings new sensations to oral pleasure.

5. Have Fun and Stay Present

The most important tip? Enjoy yourself! When you're relaxed and present in the moment, your partner will feel that positive energy. Don't worry about being "perfect" - focus on connection, exploration, and mutual pleasure.

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